Living With Men

Autorentext

Manon Garcia is a philosopher and professor at Freie Universität Berlin. She is the author of several books, including The Joy of Consent and We Are Not Born Submissive.

Klappentext

Gisèle Pelicot's story outraged the world. The sickening parade of crimes to which she was subjected and her betrayal are dark pages in our history. Feminist philosopher Manon Garcia decided to attend the trial and to analyse its resonance for our future. It became the trial that demonstrated that trials will never suffice to serve justice. If the perpetrators, for the most part, seemed so unashamed of what they had done, can we see in their sentencing anything meaningful? If their lawyers defend their clients by relieving them of responsibility for their actions, how will these men, their families, their friends see this trial as anything other than an injustice? If, even as the most explicit proof streamed before the court, the victim was stonewalled with the bland denial of facts, what can juries achieve in cases when the evidence is lacking? The threat of incarceration will never be powerful enough to stop men raping. If trusting the justice system, as those who fret about feminist overreach counsel us to do, gets us nowhere, what do we do?

Above all, one question haunted Garcia: under such circumstances, can we live with men? And at what price?

Inhalt

Introduction

Consent

The Old Lady and the Gynaecologist

Incest

Ordinary Men

Masculinity/Masculinities

Don't You Want Me Baby

To Subdue an Unsubmissive Woman

Anger

The Trial

The Videos

Writing Mazan

The Normal and the Pathological

The Judge in Us

A Good Victim

Lemaire

Dominique P.'s Final Act

December 14

Rapeable

What Remains of Our Love?

You Have to Be a Little Bit Fond of Women

Acknowledgements

Notes