The revised and updated fourth edition of Mary Sheedy Kurcinka''s perennial bestselling book, which has helped guide multiple generations of parents whose children are simply more --intense, sensitive, perceptive, persistent, and energetic. Do you ever wonder why your child acts the way they do? Are you at a loss on how to guide the development of your child''s emotional intelligence? Do you find yourself getting frustrated with frequent meltdowns and feeling like you''re at the end of your rope? Educator and parenting expert Dr. Mary Sheedy Kurcinka is here to assure you that you''re not alone and that many parents are dealing with the same challenges! You''re not a bad parent--your child may just be spirited . In the fourth revised edition of Raising Your Spirited Child , Kurcinka offers every parent a glimpse into what makes their spirited children behave the way they do. Through real-world examples culled from her vast experience as a consultant and educator, and offering a refreshingly positive viewpoint, this invaluable guide supplies parents with emotional support and proven strategies for handling the most challenging situations. Developed and honed for success over decades, this simple program will help you discover the power of positive--rather than negative--labels, understand your child''s and your own temperamental traits and how to use them to your advantage, help parents cope with tantrums and blowups when they inevitably occur, develop strategies for handling mealtimes, bedtimes, holidays, school, and so much more. Completely revisited and revised for the modern era of parenting, this edition includes: The new Spirited Child Approach: This core methodology invites parents to focus on three simple, but vital, concepts; calm , connect , and coach . This research-based and parent-tested, approach interweaves the latest findings from the fields of temperament, secure attachment, sleep, development, neurobiology, and self-regulation. Emphasizes the calming effect of structure: Structure is the preventive measure that stops challenging behaviors before they start. Dr. Kurcinka demonstrates how to build a solid foundational structure that brings predictability into daily routines, keeps children focused on the task at hand and assures basic needs are met. Addresses the impact of social media and screen time on relationships and wellbeing, not just for the child but for parents too: Face it: we''re all hooked on our screens. No guilt or shame here, just insightful questions that encourage informed use and an offers healthy alternatives when a few minutes of peace or distraction are needed...for both you and your children. Prioritizes sleep for everyone (without leaving anyone to cry it out): Adequate sleep and practical strategies to get it are of vital importance, and infused throughout the book. Sleep is the best self-care strategy for parents and children alike. Including self-surveys for quick diagnostics and simple tips for today''s time-challenged parents, this newly updated edition of Raising Your Spirited Child will allow you to foster the supportive, encouraging, and loving environment for your children that you''ve always wanted. ...

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In this fourth edition of her perennial bestselling book, Dr. Mary Sheedy Kurcinka utilizes her deep experience to address the pressures previous generations of parents didn’t have to consider. Her empathy and effective advice are exemplified in the introduction of her new and easy to apply Spirited Child Approach, which nurtures the entire family. 

The Spirited Child Approach helps parents understand their child and their own inborn temperament while focusing on three simple, but vital concepts—calm, connect, and coach—to help their family thrive. Research- and strength-based, yet honest, Raising Your Spirited Child speaks to parent burnout and, in a helpful and supportive manner, offers solutions to that exasperated question, “How am I supposed to stay calm and connect with my child when I’m just trying to survive the moment?”

What’s new in this edition?

• The Spirited Child Approach: This groundbreaking methodology focuses on three key concepts—calm, connect, and coach—offering practical tools to handle the most stressful situations.
• Structure as Prevention: Discover how structure and routine can help avoid meltdowns and create a more peaceful home.
• Tech-Savvy Parenting: Addressing the impact of screen time and social media on both kids and parents, Kurcinka provides actionable advice on managing screen use while nurturing relationships.
• The Power of Sleep: This edition prioritizes sleep for the whole family, offering simple, effective strategies for getting everyone the rest they need to thrive.

Even fans of the previous editions of this book will find tons of brand-new information and skills—updated with Dr. Mary’s latest findings after close to a decade of additional experience as a parenting coach, and for the challenging age of parenting in the age of smartphones and social media.