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Marianne Bentzen is a psychotherapist and trainer in neuroaffective development psychology. The author and coauthor of many professional articles and books, including The Neuroaffective Picture Book, she has taught in 17 countries and presented at more than 35 international and national conferences. She lives in Denmark.

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Reveals how meditation can be used for emotional growth, releasing trauma, and accessing inner wisdom

• Shares 16 guided meditations for neuroaffective brain development and emotional maturation, along with links to online recordings

• Explores the stages of emotional development, from childhood to old age, and their potentials for developing new ways of functioning

• Reveals the biopsychological effects of meditation on the human brain, including how it affects us at the autonomic, limbic, and prefrontal levels

Drawing on her 25 years of research into brain development as well as decades of meditation practice, psychotherapist Marianne Bentzen shows how neuroaffective meditation--the holistic integration of meditation, neuroscience, and psychology--can be used for personal growth and conscious maturation. She also explores how the practice can help address embedded traumas and allow access to the best perspectives of growing older while keeping the best psychological attitudes of being young--a hallmark of wisdom. She explains that there is a sequence to emotional maturation, just as there is for the development of cognitive or athletic skills, and details the central developmental processes of childhood and adolescence and the adult stages of psychological development. She then explores the biopsychological effects of meditation on the human brain, including how it affects us at the autonomic, limbic, and prefrontal levels.

The author shares 16 guided meditations for neuroaffective brain development (along with links to online recordings), each designed to gently interact with the deep, unconscious layers of the brain and help you reconnect to yourself, your relationships, and the world around. Each meditation explores a different theme, from breathing in “being in your body” to feeling love, compassion, and gratitude in “the songs of the heart” to balancing positive and negative experiences in “mandala.” The author also shares a 5-part meditation centered on breathing exercises designed to balance your energy.

Presenting an authentic, stepwise approach to spiritual growth, emotional maturation, and brain development, this guide explains the science behind neuroaffective meditation and offers detailed practices for a truly personal and ever-evolving experience of inner wisdom and growth.

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From Chapter 8. Being in Your body

In this and the following chapters, there is a short overview - a sort of recipe - of the basic structure of the meditation at the end of each guiding. For the adventurous reader, this means that you can cook up your own version of each meditation. Seasoned meditators may prefer to just read the guidings and cherry-pick the parts that they are drawn to, while others - and many who are beginning to explore meditation - will prefer the sound files. You can of course also mix and match transcripts, recordings and recipes as you please or use them as an inspiration for your own personal or professional work. Whatever you choose, I hope you will find it useful to have these different options.

Engaging different levels of ourselves in meditation

It is worth noting again that all meditations train conscious attention, and that conscious attention is a prefrontal skill. Just to give you a short recap from chapter 3: The basic ability to choose to pay attention - rather than having our attention captured - begins to develop around the age of 1 year. Somewhere between the age of 2 and 4, we develop the ability to use symbols, so that we can imagine that a banana is a mobile phone that we can use to have conversations with imaginary friends. During the next years, our imaginative skills can even expand into elaborate fantasy worlds - perhaps cops and robbers or dragons and heroes - that we share with others in pretend play. Slowly, we develop the ability to coordinate our play impulses and imagination with those of other children to create even better games. Finally, usually around the age of 6-8, our brains mature to the level where we can use our imagination to create an inner model of what we look like through the eyes of others, what it is like to be another person or even to find an inner ‘witness’, a more objective perspective of ourselves and others. All of these levels of prefrontal attention are sometimes called mindfulness.

When we get to the first meditations, we will begin, as most meditative practices do, with the most basic kind of attention, noticing what our senses tell us - information from the body and the autonomic nervous system. Those of us in the helping professions that try to integrate the body are also focused on this. However, this can be done in many different ways, and the most common way to do it is by training the ability to control attention, which is a much subtler and more advanced thing to control. In chapter 3, we called it the sixth level of development: a witnessing capacity.

Consider this classic meditation instruction: “Notice your breathing. Whenever you notice your mind wandering, just bring it back to the breath.” This instruction works with the connection between your basic prefrontal attention and inner body sensations coming from your body and organized in your parietal cortex. However, this basic attention is coupled with a subtle control instruction: “… bring your mind back to the breath”. This is much harder to do than, for instance: “Notice your breathing. Now, take a deep breath and hold it … now let go. Notice how your body feels now.” This instruction focuses on basic awareness and willed control of movement, which we learn in the beginning of our second year, while the ability to control our attention develops several years later. The ability to be reasonably quiet and pay attention to inner impulses and feelings when we would rather be talking or running around and playing is a pretty advanced skill. As a therapist, as soon as you ask an adult client or a child (or yourself, for that matter) to pay attention to internal sensations and keep on doing it, you are working with this somewhat advanced prefrontal level: a verbal request or instruction to be followed. If you are fortunate enough to be working with a client or child who has good control - or perhaps even a harmonious connection between the prefrontal to the autonomic levels - this will work out. With many of the most vulnerable or distracted children or adults, you won’t be that lucky and it won’t work out - they are not ready to develop or strengthen that skill. Playing with movement and body sensations together or going for a walk together and exploring interesting things that you see on the way will fit such a developmental learning zone of much better. Sharing with each other what your attention is spontaneously drawn to will activate the playful limbic level along with the earlier prefrontal basic attention. Not everyone is ready to learn and mature at the later prefrontal levels, no matter what age they have or how much they would like to.

After we develop the basic ability to pay attention (but before we develop the ability to control our attention instead of getting distracted), imagination is our next developing prefrontal skill. Many meditations use images and visualizations, just as we will be doing in some of the meditations to come. Imagination can be enormously helpful. We just need to have some clarity about when we are doing what. To …