Relate - After The Affair

Finding out your partner has had an affair can feel like the ultimate betrayal and learning to trust again is difficult and painful. After the Affair takes a frank look at the reasons why people have affairs and the devastating effects they may have upon the person who has been betrayed.Since this book was first published the internet has grown hugely; websites such as Facebook have mushroomed; and mobile phones have become ubiquitous. All of these create more chances to connect with other people discreetly, quickly and at any time of the day or night. As a result, the nature of affairs is changing dramatically.After the Affair helps couples understand their feelings and explains: - Why affairs happen, including common triggers- What constitutes an affair- How to recover from a betrayal- The pros and cons of leaving or staying in a relationship, with steps to take for reconciliation or parting as amicably as possible Whether you choose to reconcile or to move on, After the Affair can help you work through your feelings and make sense of what has happened.

Vorwort
Part of the bestselling Relate series, this revised edition shows you how to deal with the aftermath of an affair, whether you choose to reconcile or move on

Autorentext

Julia Cole

Klappentext

Part of the bestselling Relate series

An affair can seem like the ultimate betrayal and learning to trust again is difficult and painful. After the Affair takes a frank yet sensitive look at the reasons why people have affairs and offers guidance on how to deal with the devastating effects upon a relationship. This practical and supportive guide will explain:

• why the affair happens
• the different types of affair
• how to recover from a betrayal
• how to take positive steps to reconciliation, or an amicable parting
• how best to help your children cope
• what the future may hold

Whether you choose to reconcile with your partner or go your separate ways, After the Affair can help you make sense of what has happened, rebuild trust and move forward.