Listening Leader

LISTENING . . . THE KEY TO BECOMING A TRANSFORMATIVE SCHOOL LEADER

The Listening Leader is a practical guide that will inspire school, district, and teacher leaders to make substantive change and increase equitable student outcomes. Rooted in the values of equity, relationships, and listening, this luminous book helps reimagine what is possible in education today. Drawing from more than twenty years of experience in public schools, Shane Safir incorporates hands-on strategies and powerful stories to show us how to leverage one of the most vital tools of leadership: listening. As a Listening Leader you'll feel more confident in these core competencies:

• Cultivating relationships with stakeholders

• Addressing equity challenges in your organization

• Gathering student, staff, and parent perspectives as rich data on improvement

• Fostering a thriving culture of collaboration and innovation

The Listening Leader offers a much-needed leadership model to transform every facet of school life, and most importantly, to shape our schools into equitable places of learning. As Michael Fullan writes in the Foreword, "Read it, act on it, and reap the benefits for all."

"This book is a 'must have' for any leader trying to move the needle on equity. Drawing from her lived experience as a principal and leadership coach, Safir offers stories that give insight and practical strategies that get results. It's one you'll keep coming back to."
--Zaretta Hammond, author of Culturally Responsive Teaching and the Brain

" The Listening Leader immediately changed the way I interact with students, teachers, families and community members."
--Tamara Friedman, assistant principal, Berkeley High School

"Shane Safir has written a brilliant book. As engaging as it is informative and as revelatory as it is relevant. It is a must-read for school leaders and those who aspire to lead."
--Chris Emdin, associate professor of science education, Teachers College, Columbia University; author of For White Folks Who Teach In the Hood and the Rest of Ya'll too

Auteur

SHANE SAFIR is a coach, writer, and facilitator. She was the founding co-principal of June Jordan School for Equity, an innovative national model identified by scholar Linda Darling-Hammond as having "beaten the odds in supporting the success of low-income students of color." Visit her at shanesafir.com.

Résumé
LISTENING . . . THE KEY TO BECOMING A TRANSFORMATIVE SCHOOL LEADER

The Listening Leader is a practical guide that will inspire school, district, and teacher leaders to make substantive change and increase equitable student outcomes. Rooted in the values of equity, relationships, and listening, this luminous book helps reimagine what is possible in education today. Drawing from more than twenty years of experience in public schools, Shane Safir incorporates hands-on strategies and powerful stories to show us how to leverage one of the most vital tools of leadership: listening. As a Listening Leader you'll feel more confident in these core competencies:

• Cultivating relationships with stakeholders
• Addressing equity challenges in your organization
• Gathering student, staff, and parent perspectives as rich data on improvement
• Fostering a thriving culture of collaboration and innovation
  The Listening Leader offers a much-needed leadership model to transform every facet of school life, and most importantly, to shape our schools into equitable places of learning. As Michael Fullan writes in the Foreword, "Read it, act on it, and reap the benefits for all."

"This book is a 'must have' for any leader trying to move the needle on equity. Drawing from her lived experience as a principal and leadership coach, Safir offers stories that give insight and practical strategies that get results. It's one you'll keep coming back to."
Zaretta Hammond, author of Culturally Responsive Teaching and the Brain

" The Listening Leader immediately changed the way I interact with students, teachers, families and community members."
Tamara Friedman, assistant principal, Berkeley High School

"Shane Safir has written a brilliant book. As engaging as it is informative and as revelatory as it is relevant. It is a must-read for school leaders and those who aspire to lead."
Chris Emdin, associate professor of science education, Teachers College, Columbia University; author of For White Folks Who Teach In the Hood and the Rest of Ya'll too

Contenu

List of Figures, Tables, and Exhibits XIII

Foreword XVII

Preface XXI

Introduction XXV

Equitable School Transformation Is Possible

Leaderful Schools, Not Leaderthin

Primary Audiences for This Book

The Listening Leader Map

How to Read This Book

Anonymity and Pseudonyms

Chapter 1: The Transformative Power of Listening 1

Learning to Listen

What We've Inherited

A Few Core Beliefs

Key Challenge 1: The Persistence of Inequity

Key Challenge 2: Integrity in the Face of Pressure

Key Challenge 3: Dealing With Trauma

Key Challenge 4: Disconnected Data

Becoming a Listening Leader

A Word on Mindfulness

The Arts Academy Revisited

Part One: Awareness
What do I need to know and understand to become a Listening Leader?

Chapter 2: The Core Tenets of Listening Leadership 31

The Leader Who Wanted to Write People Up

Listening Is Brain-Savvy

The Neighborhoods of the Brain

Tenet 1: Our Brains Are Wired for Survival First

Tenet 2: Our Brains React to Survival Threats Through Fight, Flight, or Tend-and-Befriend

Tenet 3: Social Threats Signal Survival Threats to Our Brains

Tenet 4: Every Brain Grows in the Right Conditions

Tenet 5: Organizations Have Core Memories

Chapter 3: Listening for Equity 55

The Fragility of Trust Across Difference

Tuning in to Structural Racism

Tuning in to Unconscious Bias

Tuning in to Cultural Difference

Lessons Learned: Joy and Wendy

Chapter 4: Getting Ready to Listen 79

Listening Below the Green Line

No Shortcut to Trust

Bids and Betrayals

Understand Your Living System

Mindful Listening

The Problem of Rumination

A Seamless Transition

Part Two: Relational Capital
How do I build the interpersonal currency needed to support and develop adult learners?

Chapter 5: Practicing Deep Listening 105

The Fallout of Failing to Listen

Relational Capital

Two Types of Listening: Deep and Strategic

Principles of Deep Listening

Deep Listening Stance 1: Attention to Nonverbal Cues

Deep Listening Stance 2: Mature Empathy

Deep Listening Stance 3: Affirmation

Chapter 6: Practicing Strategic Listening 127

The Impact of the Right Question

Building Capacity Through Listening

Principles of Strategic Listening

Strategic Listening Stance 1: An Orientation to Vision

Strategic Listening Stance 2: Reflective Inquiry

Strategic Listening Stance 3: A Bias Toward Action

Integrating the Six Stances

Seeds of Transformation

Chapter 7: Listening to Parents 146

When Things Fall Apart

Navigating Difference With Parents

Flipping the Script Between Parents and Educators

Five Ways to Listen to Parents

Jackie's Reflections

Chapter 8: Listening to Students 166

Listening to Students Tell the Real StoryEven When It's Hard to Hear

Discarding WellWorn Scripts

Five Ways to Listen to Students

Listening and Democracy

Part Three: Complex Change
How do I diagnose and navigate the challenges I face as a leader?

Chapter 9: Influencing Complex Change 189

The Listening Leader's Landscape

Leadership in a Living System

Diagnose Your Problems and Challenges

Six Steps to Influence Complex Change

Shaping the Path

Chapter 10: Leveraging Listening Routines 214

A Staff Meeting with 100% Engagement GrownUps …